【今日夜听】聪明人，都这样发语音
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">出去逛街，老公抱着孩子走在我旁边，我因为有篇文章要和编辑沟通，就抱着手机低着头不停地在打字。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">我突然反应过来，抬起头悻悻地说：人家不都说，微信聊天千万不要发语音的嘛！万一对方不方便听怎么办？</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">老公更来气：人家给你发的是语音，证明她这会儿方便听也方便说，我提醒过你三遍了，还有你这样低着头走路，你知道有多危险吗，现在是我在你旁边，那如果我不在的时候呢……</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">被他这么一说，我才突然反应过来，低着头边打字边走路，也真的是很危险。而且在打字的过程中，因为太冷手都冻麻了，动不动就打错，不得不删了又重新打，费神费时还费力。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">于是，我果断把自己关于文章的看法用语音给编辑发了过去，编辑很快回了我这样一条语音：你一发语音，我突然觉得好亲切啊，以后如果方便的话，我们就尽量用语音沟通吧，打一大段字真的太浪费时间了，还感觉总说不明白！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">本以为编辑会排斥语音，毕竟之前网上经常流行发语音是于己方便，于人不便，是自私，没礼貌和低情商的表现，现在看来，这种说法倒是存在极大的以偏概全的偏见。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">我们不得不承认的是，在比如赶路，开车，做饭，吃饭等实在腾不出手，不方便打字的情况下，对于那些不得不及时回复的消息，发语音，的确是最好的选择。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">当然，如果害怕对方不方便接听，不如发之前先问一句“你现在方便听语音吗”，也不失为一种礼貌的体现。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">所以，微信语音并没那么可怕，真正可怕的，是我们硬将自己套进那些所谓的标准和条条框框的愚昧。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">几个月前，老公跟一位学生的家长，沟通出了问题。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">老公说：每次我给她反馈完她孩子的学习情况，她就回我最简短的“嗯”或“哦”，感觉爱搭不理的。你说，她是不是对我的教学不满意啊？</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">一开始，我以为真如老公所言，学生家长可能对老公的教学有什么看法，或者对孩子学习根本不关心，所以回复总显得很冷漠。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">直到有一天，家长主动询问孩子的学习进展，老公因为实在太忙，没办法打字，就直接给家长发了语音。没想到，家长也很快地同样回了语音。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">一条二十几秒的语音，老公听完以后乐了，他说：原来是我想多了，家长对我很满意，还说很放心把孩子交给我带。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">后来，老公每次跟这位家长沟通都发语音，家长也很及时地回复，沟通久了才发现，其实她是很热情的一位家长。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">我跟老公不禁陷入了沉思：明明是一个很热情的人呐，为什么用文字沟通的时候总给人一种冷冰冰的感觉？</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">后来，我们找到了答案，不同年龄段的人，用文字沟通时往往有着不同的方式和喜好。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">比如年轻一代，聊天时更喜欢用叠字或者感叹语气，同样的意思，年轻人喜欢说“嗯嗯”，“哦哦”，“好哒好哒”；而年纪大的人，则更习惯于用最简单粗暴的“嗯”，“哦”或者“好”。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">比如，我会觉得你说的“好”很勉强，“哦”很敷衍，“嗯”也是满不在乎。而你会觉得我说的“好哒好哒”很奇怪。<br>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">语音聊天，则完全不存在这样的困扰。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">心理学家指出，声音是内心情感的最真实表现，相比文字，它更具真实性，更有亲切感，更能调动人与人之间的情绪，拉进人与人之间的距离。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">所以，社交软件中的声音，其实往往比文字更有魅力。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">通过语音，我们更容易识别说话人的语气和情绪。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">我们不用再害怕言语被曲解，担心意思被误解，不用再费心去猜测对方的意愿和心情，</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">那些隐藏在话语背后的情绪，都可以通过声音源源不断地流出。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">我妈从来不在我们的亲戚群里聊天，从来都是，一句话也不说。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">有次，表姐发现了这个事实后就在群里艾特了我妈，问她是不是一直在潜水，大家都聊得热火朝天的，她怎么从来都不搭话。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">我妈看到了消息，但她依然没有回复。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">因为我妈不识字。所以即使看到大家聊得很嗨，她也不知道聊的什么，看到有人@她，也不清楚对方说了什么，更无从回复。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">后来，表姐知道这个事实后，便呼吁大家在群里聊天尽情发语音，让每个人都可以参与进来。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">有了这个呼吁之后，我们的亲戚群，一下子热闹了。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">连之前从来不聊天不说话的姥姥姥爷，也突然变得话很多。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">原因显而易见，用了语音之后，他们不怕看不懂文字，不怕跟不上节奏，想说的话，也都可以畅所欲言了。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">有时候，听到亲人说完一句话后哈哈哈的笑声，就觉得很欢乐很温馨。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">无论是不在身边的父母，异地的恋人，还是很久不见的朋友之间，语音，于对方来说都是一种更生动，更有感染力，更能温暖人心的慰藉。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">知乎上曾有人问：用微信语音就是情商低的表现吗?有个回答我很喜欢：</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">不分场合使用微信语音是情商低的表现，而单纯的使用微信语音，并不是。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">对中老年人来说，手机打字效率低，使用语音功能无可厚非。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">好友之间语音，更是能直接第一时间从声音里听出彼此的喜怒哀乐。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">现在，如果我碰上了不方便打字的情况，都会提前问对方一句：方便听语音吗？</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">对方如果回答可以，我们迅速的做交流，效率反而更高。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">所以“使用微信语音是情商低”和“买刀就是为了杀人”一样，是缺乏最基本逻辑的体现。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">当使用语音被不分青红皂白地扣上没素质，低情商和没文化的帽子，或许，这并不是修养的提升，而是认知的退步。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">说白了，打文字，并不意味着有修养，发语音，也并不意味着没道德。一是要看场合，二也要看我们心里是否排斥与自己沟通的那个人。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:楷体, 楷体_GB2312;font-weight:bold">毕竟，对于一个很在乎的人，我们都是恨不得时时刻刻听到他的声音的。</span>
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<p align="center"><embed height="0" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" allownetworking="all" flashvars="loop=true&autoPlay=true&url=http://cdn5.lizhi.fm/audio/2019/01/18/5021517579341635590_hd.mp3&trackId=1771717&trackName=Once%20Upon%20A%20Time&artistName=Michael%20Dulin" width="0" allowscriptaccess="always" quality="high" invokeurls="false" src="http://s1.music.126.net/style/swf/LofterMusicPlayer.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent"></p></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></div></td></tr></tbody></table></div> 我喜欢打字
上班时间听语音不方便
当然上班以外的时间就无所谓了 每一个人都有自己的习惯
微信确实方便了大众
无论沟通还是钱币的收付 谢谢老兵的分享
制作整理辛苦了 祝老兵周末快乐～ 看文字比听语音要快得多。:lol 语音要简短。:lol 感谢推介，周末愉快！ 欣赏赞！问好老兵！祝新年快乐！ 与你分享，与你同醉。
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