老兵日志 发表于 2019-1-21 15:01:04

【今日夜听】最毒的男人,不是出轨,不是脾气...

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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">我见过很多性格差的男人,有抠门还要面子的,有脾气不好三两句话就要吵起来的,还有性格狭隘记仇的,但是给我印象最深的却是一个谈吐得体,举止文雅的男人。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">一次,我们公司和另一个公司有个合作,我和他分别是两方公司的负责人,经常在一起吃饭。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">他给人的感觉很不错,吃饭会照顾到大家的口味,对待女士温柔又体贴,对待领导会奉承却不露骨。在场的女士们,大都对他心生好感。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">晚上吃完饭,我和他乘坐同一辆出租车,正闭目养神时,他的手机响了。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">我睁眼一看,便看到他本来微笑的脸一下子变得很难看,直接把电话挂了,可是电话那头的人好像有什么急事,坚持不懈地打过来,他才接了电话。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">“跟你说在外面工作,你打什么电话。”他一脸的不耐烦。</span>
<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">“……”</span>
<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">“他一直闹,你就不会哄哄吗?找我有什么用?”</span>
<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">“烦死了,哭哭哭!就知道哭,我今晚不回去了。”</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">接电话时,他表情甚至有些狰狞,挂了电话见我在看他,立刻换上了一副平易近人的笑容,变脸之快令人啧啧称奇。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">“是我老婆,没啥大事。”他主动解释道。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">“不回去看看吗?你老婆可能忙不过来啊。”我问他。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">“这么大人了,连个孩子都照顾不好,娶个老婆什么用。”他撇了撇嘴。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">我没再说话,对这个人的好感度瞬间降到了零下,再回想起他对同事的和颜悦色,对老板的巴结奉承,和对老婆的丑恶嘴脸,最毒的男人,莫过于此了。</span>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">02</span>
<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">真正的男人把妻子孩子当做世间最宝贵,自己的生命中最珍贵的东西,生怕磕着碰着。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">对待外人严肃认真,对待妻儿却温柔有耐心,他们把心底柔软的地方都留给家人。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">最毒的男人把妻子孩子当做自己的附属品,当做发泄负面情绪的垃圾桶。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">工作不顺心了,不敢跟同事吵架,回家对着妻子发脾气;</span>
<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">在外人面前受了气,回家对着老婆孩子颐指气使;</span>
<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">对外点头哈腰,对着自己最亲近的人反而动辄打骂。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">因为是最亲近的人,所以对她们不耐烦,她们也不会生气;因为是自己的老婆孩子,所以就应该对他无条件地包容和忍耐;因为是家人,所以活该受气。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">把家人的宽容当做理所应当,把别人的付出不屑一顾,这样的男人,事业上再成功,也无法让人喜欢,因为他们从来不懂珍惜,不懂尊重。</span>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">03</span>
<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">最毒的男人,不是出轨,不是脾气差,而是那些对外人宽容大度,对家人尖酸刻薄的那些人。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">明明对待陌生人都能够做到彬彬有礼,明明对关系一般的同事都能笑脸相迎,明明对伤害过自己的人都能做到原谅和宽容。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">可一面对自己的老婆,难听的话就脱口而出,说翻脸就翻脸,对自己的老婆连最基本的尊重都没有,对一个不认识的人比对自己的家人态度还好。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">嫁给这样的男人,是一种痛苦。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">这种痛苦,甚至比他出轨更难受。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">男人出轨了,很简单,他的错,离婚,长痛不如短痛。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">而和这种男人生活,是一种长久的精神上和生理上的折磨。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">离婚吧,你觉得他不是犯了原则性的错误,内心会犹豫;</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">不离婚吧,又过不下去,造成的结果就是将就着生活,直到有一天将你的爱消磨得一干二净。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">对老婆的态度决定着一个男人的人品,对老婆不好的男人,人品一定不会高。<br>

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欧阳风刀 发表于 2019-1-21 15:50:38

最毒的男人,有多毒。:lol

欧阳风刀 发表于 2019-1-21 15:50:59

挺有意味,赞一个。

绿蔷薇 发表于 2019-1-22 07:58:48

对老婆的态度决定着一个男人的人品,对老婆不好的男人,人品一定不会高。{:S16:}

绿蔷薇 发表于 2019-1-22 07:59:04

蛮有意思的文字
欣赏聆听中~~~

绿蔷薇 发表于 2019-1-22 07:59:16

谢谢老兵的分享,早安~~~

醉雪胡杨 发表于 2019-1-22 08:35:02

佳作,欣赏了。问好老兵!

醉雪胡杨 发表于 2019-1-22 08:39:49

喜欢你的作品,期待更多更多,欣赏欣赏欣赏了~
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