【美文赏析】有了这种淡然，你会笑口常开
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">人性有一个弱点: 你越在意什么，什么就越折磨你。人生有一种淡然: 不能接受的就改变，不能改变的就离开。保持了这种淡然，甩弃了这种弱点，保你笑口常开！当你能够把世间一切看开、看淡，懂得理解别人，善待自己时，你将会快乐惬意地过好每一天！多要求自己，你会更加独立；少要求别人，你会减少失望。宁愿花时间去修炼不完美的自己，也不要浪费时间去期待完美的别人。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">在现实生活中，有不少人，有不少事，我们都难以接受，可又很难改变。比如房价上涨、交通堵塞、周围人的穿戴打扮、错综复杂的人际关系等等。对此，你若一味的谩骂，暗暗的生闷气，于事无补，只能会给疲惫的身心增添烦恼，增加更大的负担，倒不如用乐观的态度去正视生活中的酸甜苦辣。有个禅道哲理，很值得我们深刻领悟和反思: 唐朝贞观年间，高僧寒山曾请教禅师拾得: “世间谤我、欺我、辱我、笑我、轻我、贱我、恶我、骗我，又如何处之？” 拾得回答: “只是忍他、让他、由他、避他、耐他、敬他，再过几年，你再看他。” 正所谓“退一步海阔天空，让三分心平气和”。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">面对别人的嘲笑，讥讽，诽谤和侮辱，谁能不气愤？但你如果针锋相对，不依不饶，或许更加气恼，因为你不能改变他们，不如按照拾得禅师的说法而行，方为上策。一只普通的蚌，经过痛苦的历练变成一颗珍珠的事实，同样证明着一个处世智慧: 如果无法改变，就试着去接受。有人把一粒沙子放进蚌的壳内时，蚌难受万分，但它又无法将沙子吐出。此时蚌有两个不同的选择: 一个是不停的抱怨，让自己更痛苦；一个是接受这粒沙子，与它和睦相处。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">聪明的蚌选择了第二种方式，蚌慢慢地把沙子当作了自己。虽然那粒沙子不断磨着蚌嫩嫩的肉体，使得蚌时时在痛苦中挣扎，可是那粒沙子最终却变成了一颗晶莹圆润的珍珠！而这只蚌也因此成了一只高贵的蚌！对于有些人，有些事， 既然努力了而不能改变，不妨试着去接受。做到不以物喜，不以己悲，顺其自然，淡定淡然。这世上所有的误会都来自不理解，所有的矛盾都来自不沟通，所有的错过都来自不信任。人与人之间，如果误会能消除，如果相互能沟通，如果彼此能信任，就没有什么不能接受或改变。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold">有些人，处之不和，便只能离开；有些事，看之不顺，便只能接受；有些情，理之不清，便只能割舍；有些痛，挥之不去，便只能遗忘；有些快乐，留之不住，便只能记忆。学会承受，学会包容，学会化解，学会微笑。不给别人出难题，不与自己过不去。当你不能接受，当你不能改变，当你无可奈何时，请记住: 最好的医生是自己，最好的药物是变通，最好的心情是宁静，最好的保健是笑容！</span>
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<p align="center"><embed height="0" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" allownetworking="all" flashvars="loop=true&autoPlay=true&url=http://cdn5.lizhi.fm/audio/2019/01/17/5021276432100821638_ud.mp3&trackId=1771717&trackName=Once%20Upon%20A%20Time&artistName=Michael%20Dulin" width="0" allowscriptaccess="always" quality="high" invokeurls="false" src="http://s1.music.126.net/style/swf/LofterMusicPlayer.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent"></p></span></div></span></div></span></div></span></div></td></tr></tbody></table></div> 当你能够把世间一切看开、看淡，懂得理解别人，善待自己时，你将会快乐惬意地过好每一天！ 最好的医生是自己，最好的药物是变通，最好的心情是宁静，最好的保健是笑容！ :victory: 让人受益的文字，配乐真到位，谢谢老兵的精彩分享~~~{:S01:} 多要求自己，你会更加独立；少要求别人，你会减少失望。 美文美乐……超赞！ 最好的保健是笑容 愿我们大家笑口常开 谢谢老兵带来的精彩 问候 祝新春快乐 绝美好文章，期待更多佳作！ 把微笑带给生活，用微笑去点缀生命。
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