【美文朗诵】女人你可以不怕苦，但要找个懂你苦的人
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">朋友燕子聊天，聊到一个问题：什么时候，你对一个人彻底绝望了？</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">燕子这样说道：有天晚上，跟老公带孩子在外面打算买碗米线吃，在等米线的间隙，孩子有点闹腾，我赶忙手舞足蹈地努力逗孩子乐，可恰巧那天孩子有点犟，死活哄不好。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">这时，卖米线的店主开口了：呀，看你怎么当妈的，连个孩子也哄不好。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">在店主看来，那只是一句玩笑，不过听到这话，我心里其实有点不舒服，但也没打算反驳，可就在那时，老公突然也气急败坏地大声吼了我一句：就是，你说你这么大个人了，整天疯疯癫癫，怎么当妈的！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">那一刻，我没说话，只是抱起孩子默默地走了……</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">对他绝望，大概就是从那一刻开始的。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">说起来，其实也不是多大的事儿，只是，在那种情景下，他没有护着我，为我解围，反而是跟别人一起阴阳怪气地责怪我。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">别人不懂我，难道，他也不懂我吗？</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">燕子最后心酸委屈地说：有了孩子之后，老人身体不好没办法帮我们带孩子，我就辞去了当初很喜欢的工作，在家专职带娃。5年来，我像个陀螺一样忙到转不停，苦是苦点，但我也没什么抱怨的，毕竟，我爱他，愿意为他吃苦受累。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">可我气的是，他从来不懂我的苦，反而认为我矫情。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">作家廖一梅说，我们这一生，遇到爱，遇到性，都不稀罕，稀罕的是遇到了解。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">为你我吃再多苦都愿意，可我真的怕你突然说一句，“我不要。”</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">对女人来说，总有一些这样的时刻，你想要委屈时的一个用力拥抱，渴望难过时的一份温馨安慰。可身边的男人，只能看到你脸上的笑容，却不清楚你笑容之下的落寞；看到你坚不可摧的强大，却不明白你坚强背后的恐慌和故作镇定；看到你表面的乐观和开朗，却看不懂你内心深处的无奈和孤单。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">其实，每个女人背后，都有别人体会不到的辛苦，每个女人心里，都有旁人无法体会的难处。很多时候，坚强的外表下，隐藏的是无法诉说的委屈；灿烂的笑容下，掩饰的是不为人知的苦楚。</span>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12);font-weight:bold"><span style="color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">☞☞</span>01<span style="color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">☜☜</span></span>
<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">在一期《奇葩说》里，柏邦妮问：“心里苦的人，要多少甜才能填满啊”</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">马东说：“心里有很多苦的人，只需要一丝甜就能填满”。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">感情里的一份懂得，恰恰就是那一丝甜。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">但我们最怕的，就是能给自己那丝甜的人却对你毫不在意。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">曾看见一位网友在网上分享了自己的一段经历，她说：</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">我生完孩子要再回去上班的时候，才发现我的职位早已被别人顶替了，而我被分配到了一个自己根本不熟悉也不擅长的部门。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">那段时间，我的心情糟糕透顶，动不动就发脾气，时不时就闹情绪。可庆幸的是，老公从来不生气，还耐心地跟我谈心，安慰我，鼓励我，并且心甘情愿承担了所有的家务。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">他当时安慰我时说的一句话，我想我会记一辈子。他说：宝贝儿，没事，糟糕的日子总会过去的，这不还有我和你一起扛呢嘛，怕什么！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">当时看完这段分享感觉自己心里也是暖暖的。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">这世间，最难能可贵的，是你不怕苦，而他，又恰巧懂你的苦。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">一句懂得，一份理解和包容，一段感情，瞬间就甜了起来。<br>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)"><span style="font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">☞☞</span><span style="font-weight:bold"><span style="display:none"></span></span><span style="font-weight:bold">02</span><span style="font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">☜☜</span><span style="display:none"></span></span>
<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">知乎上有个问题问，什么是最好的夫妻关系？</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">有个高赞回答说：最好的夫妻关系应该是你说的笑话她会笑，你说的梗她能吐槽，你的挑逗她能起反应。她的开心事会与你一起分享，她的不开心事你会耐心倾听，在赞同之余提出自己解决问题的方法与方式。 </span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">其实，感情里，相识，相爱，从来不是问题，问题是能不能相知。 </span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">怕就怕，两个人的关系就像刺猬，平时彼此靠近相互依偎，一旦有了问题，又立马针锋相对，彼此伤害。 </span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">走得累不累，脚知道；撑得难不难，肩知道；过得苦不苦，心知道。 </span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">遇到一个懂你不易，知你冷暖的人，远比有一个爱你的人幸运。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">因为，只有懂你难处，知你苦楚的人，才能更好地给你幸福。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">当你在工作中遇到瓶颈，还在家中为他喜笑颜开时，他会摸着你的头用力拥抱你，当你日复一日为家庭琐碎操劳时，他会看在眼里记在心里，并且默默守护你。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">他懂你的难处，懂你的不易，感激你的付出，珍惜你的陪伴，就是一段感情里最美好的样子。<br>
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<div style="text-align:center"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)"><span style="font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">☞☞</span><span style="font-weight:bold">03</span><span style="font-weight:bold;color:rgb(255, 0, 0)">☜☜</span></span>
<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">因为爱，所以慈悲；因为懂，所以宽容。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">任何感情，往往因为懂得彼此的艰难之处，反而能够日久弥坚。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">两个互相不理解的人，很难在一段亲密关系里长久下去。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">当一个女人照顾着不太听话懂事的孩子，又伺候着孩子一样的老人，生活艰辛，却换不回男人几句暖心话时，再炽热的爱，总有一天也会变凉。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">很多时候，女人最怕的，不是你没钱，不够优秀，而是她愿意和你一起吃苦，奋斗，你却从来不懂得珍惜。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">对女人来说，只要身边的男人能够明白她拼命逞强的背后，承受了多少的压力，看穿她坚持不懈的背后，投入了多少精力，懂得她日夜操劳的背后，付出了多少心血，懂她强忍的泪水，假装的坚强，在她撑不住的时候，有个肩膀可以依靠，就够了。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">愿每个不容易的女人，都有人珍惜，懂你心酸，知你悲欢。<br>
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