【朗诵与音乐】爱一个人，并给他足够自由
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">谈到爱情，往往会想起轰轰烈烈、花前月下、甜甜蜜蜜、长相厮守等等美好的词语！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">爱情是人类亘古不变的永恒话题，谁不渴望拥有一份刻骨铭心的爱？谁不希望与爱的人情深意长执子之手与子偕老渡过漫长温馨的一生！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">然而在爱与被爱的过程中我们是否很好的把握住了爱的分寸，你爱的人是否对你付出的爱感觉到舒服自然？</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">不少人在爱情中沉沦，为什么说是“沉沦”？有的人在爱情中失去了自我，整天纠结于他爱不爱我，他爱我有多深，我在他心里位置多重？</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">于是活的患得患失，活的恍恍惚惚，不思茶饭夜不能寐，整个人都被自己不确定的所谓“爱情”折磨的人不像人鬼不像鬼！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">然而，越是这样越得不到真爱，谁愿意和一个把感情放在第一位，迷失了自己的人一起生活，那样子多压抑，这种爱情不是真正的爱情，是自私狭隘的爱情，是经不起时间和生活磨砺的！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">爱的本质是两个人在一起能相互成就，是两个灵魂能相互升华，是两个人在一起就觉得愉悦、开心、踏实！是心与心的交换、情与情的共鸣。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">古人用琴瑟和鸣形容爱情的高度默契，也用高山流水遇知音来形容恋人应该是知音，是能理解对方心灵深处的渴望与需求的人！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">许多人以爱的名义绑架对方，不让对方接触异性朋友，不让对方做他喜欢的事情，回家翻看手机，出门电话不断，深怕对方做了对不起自己的事情，殊不知这种剑拔弩张的感情还能叫爱情吗？</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">处在这种关系里的两个人还能坦坦荡荡吗？更有甚者去跟踪去打听，好像深怕有什么事情是自己不知道的！这样的感情简直就是一种负累！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">爱一个人，说“爱”容易，如何去爱却很难，爱一个人不只是得到他，还必须是高度的去欣赏他，接纳他！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">欣赏他的优点、他的才华、他的人格、他的父母兄妹……同时还得去接纳他的“坏”毛病，人无完人，白玉无瑕只是一种理想状态！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">爱一个人，就给他足够的自由，一个人只有在被欣赏、被认可、被鼓励的情形下才能把自己的潜能发挥到极致，只有在足够大的空间里才能心情愉悦，也只有在轻松的环境中才能产生强大的创造力！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">李白斗酒诗百篇，苏轼把酒问青天，这些伟大的诗人和他们创作的流传千古的诗篇都是在非常“自由的”环境中写成的！许多艺术家的惊世之作都来源于他们思想的天马行空无拘无束！</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体;font-weight:bold;color:rgb(12, 12, 12)">当然，这里所说的自由不是违反法律或者道德的自由，而是心灵的自由、思想的自由、人生的自由！是来源与彼此高度信任信赖的自由！</span>
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如果爱，请珍惜拥有的每一天........ 写的真好，让人真的要相信爱情了~~~ 谢谢老兵分享，遥祝周末快乐~~~
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